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Whom do you envy? What makes you cry?
Getting back in touch with those instincts is an important step in finding your passion. If money were no object, what would you do? Spend all of your time with your children? Would you start a charitable organization to help abused women? Ask the people who know you intimately when you seem the happiest and what you do the most enthusiastically.
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Their answers may surprise you. Find some quiet time and see which courses naturally interest you. What would you study if you could do it all over?
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What courses do you think you could teach? Which subjects scare you to death, and which ones do you find boring? Revisiting these possibilities will help point you in the direction of subjects and topics that you love. Of everyone you know, either personally or in your extended frame of reference from your dermatologist to Oprah , whose career would you most want to emulate?
Focus on the things that you both enjoy and do well—whether you have a way with animals, make a killer lemon tart, or are crazy for origami—and write them down. Then, narrow the list to the top three or four things. Once you have a solid idea of what you love doing, it can still be a big leap to turn that passion into a viable career.
Here are four easy steps to start making the change:. Take advantage of those resources. More than ever, we live in a social world. Once you feel strongly that you want to start down this new path, start saving. The more money you have in the bank, the less finances will have to rule your decisions. And the less scary it will be if and when you do quit your job. So, whether you take a small step like signing up for a class or you dive head-first into entrepreneurship , roll up your sleeves and do it.
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You don't find them, you choose them. And when you do, you're on the path to fulfillment. Verified by Psychology Today. The Power of Introverts. In a previous post , I talked about how introverts often spend so much of their lives conforming to extroverted norms, that by the time they choose a career , it feels perfectly normal to ignore their own preferences. So here are five tips on how to find work you love: Pay attention to what you envy. Jealousy is an ugly emotion, but it tells the truth. You only envy those who have what you desire.
Back when I was a Wall Street lawyer, some of my former law school classmates got together one evening, and compared notes on alumni career tracks. They spoke with admiration and, yes, jealousy, of a classmate who argued regularly before the Supreme Court. At first I felt critical of their envy.
More power to that classmate! I thought, congratulating myself on my magnanimity. When I asked myself whom I did envy, the answer came back instantly. Ask yourself what you loved to do when you were a child. How did you answer the question of what you wanted to be when you grew up? The specific answer you gave may have been off the mark, but the underlying impulse was not.
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If you wanted to be a fireman, what did a fireman mean to you? A good man who rescued people in distress? Or the simple pleasure of operating a truck? If you wanted to be a dancer, was it because you got to wear a costume, or because you craved applause, or was it the pure joy of twirling around at lightning speed? You may have known more about who you were then than you do now. Pay attention to the work you gravitate to. I also sat on several law firm committees dedicated to mentoring and training young lawyers in the firm. Now I am not the committee type I'm an introvert!
What makes you cry? He advises that you sit down with a blank sheet of paper, ask yourself what your life purpose is, and keep writing down answers until you come to the one that makes you cry. I experienced a variation of this many years ago.
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I was having dinner with my good friend Katie Orenstein. And I burst into tears.
Now here I am, with my first book coming out next year. In an ideal world they will be one and the same. Then spend the rest of your time doing what you truly love. Get blog updates, plus a chance to win a half-hour coaching phone session with me. For earlier posts on the Power of Introverts, please visit my website here. I am not only an introvert, but in my mids and needing to explore some work changes as my current work will be done next year and I know it's time for me to move onto something else.
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